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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-12-19 04:03 pm
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(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't watch The Crown, but I wholeheartedly agree that CPB gets treated horribly by the press. It's a shame, because she seems like a lovely lady.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-21 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
She isn't/wasn't pretty like Diana, so they pick on her. It's the same ol', same ol'. (Yes, I'm unattractive and bitter.)

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I kind of thought I heard that Prince Charles and Camilla were an item before he got married. Is that true or just something I misunderstood?

Tbh I don't like biopics because they make me uncomfortable, wondering how much if at all their rendering squares with the truth of the person in the story. I have this feeling of polite emotional distance. I don't know how to express it..

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
They'd dated before Charles got married to Diana, but I think he wasn't ready to settle down and she ended up marrying someone else. It's a shame, really. Certainly seems like a lot of problems would've been solved if they'd gotten married in the first place.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for the clarification
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-12-19 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
CPB was married until 1995, but she and her ex had been separated for years. She and Charles had an intimate relationship while she was married, and after, as well, though how intimate and how often, etc., is gossip and innuendo - pretty sure they weren't running around like rabbits all the time, but her as a discreet mistress was very well known in most circles.
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[personal profile] ibbity 2020-12-19 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Meh, a woman who consciously chooses to carry on and affair with a married man is no angel. Charles was worse but Camilla doesn't get away smelling of roses either let's be honest. I think most people disapprove of conscious homewrecker behavior.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
It's more a thing of its time and culture, IMO. Having a discreet affair (after you'd presented your partner with an heir and a spare) wasn't seen as quite so bad, because a lot of marriages at the upper levels weren't done for love. There was this idea that getting married to someone who was a proper spouse was something you did because you had a responsibility to do so, like getting a job that paid the bills. Then once your obligations were fulfilled, you could have your fun on the side.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-19 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, but the tabloid press really turned that on its head! Which I find very interesting, because it's always been an open secret that the royals in general are absolutely not the moral paragons and leaders that they present as, but it only has any consequences every few hundred years! (See: Charles I, James II, the Prince Regent...)
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2020-12-20 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Charles I was a completely crap leader, don't get me wrong, but he was a good husband, a loving father, and a man of principles. Stupid principles which he was completely incapable of compromising even when it was obviously a good idea to, but principles none the less. (Do you mean Charles II? Although I don't think he was actually trying to make people think he was a paragon of virtue...)

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
That's fine if both parties agree. But it was pretty clear that Di didn't agree to sharing her husband.

Plus a thing of it's time? It was the 1980s not the 1780s.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Right? It's almost like the British monarchy operates on an antiquated level or something...

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Wives were supposed to look the other way, and have affairs of their own once they'd produced an heir. I'm not saying that was a great way to handle things, but it was a longstanding tradition - marital fidelity was not the norm in marriages like that. No doubt the royals expected Diana to be aware of that and to fall in line, as so many other wives had done.

And if you think such practices and expectations were only common in the 1870s and not in more recent times... you don't really know much about English history at all, do you?

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
It's a bad system. Any human being with a working autonomous mind and the capacity for critical thought in the modern era should be able to see it's a bad system. So it's no excuse at all that it was traditionally the way it was done.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
1980s was not the modern era. Social attitudes about gender have changed a lot in the last forty years, and things still aren't equal.

Besides, nobody's claiming it was a sensible way to do things. Just like pay inequality, lack of paid maternity leave.... None of that is sensible, but not changeable by us as individuals just because we know it's fucking stupid.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, but none of that means that the royal family did nothing wrong and Diana should simply have expected it and it's her own fault for getting uppity ideas about being a human person and not merely a bearer of children

which is the way people talk about it

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
DA - God, won't ANYONE ever think of the feelings of poor, perfect, innocent, angelic Diana in all this?!

Do I condone extramarital affairs? No, I do not. That goes for ALL parties involved. Do I condone 40-year-long Virgin vs. Whore debates? No, I do not.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course CPB isn't in the wrong either.

But you've had people here the last couple weeks acting like it was reasonable for the royal family to expect Diana to be a broodmare.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope. That was your looking-for-a-fight reading of it, or a very willful refusal to understand what people are saying. Hint: people were saying that's what the royal family expected of Diana, and that may have been partly how they viewed her role in their family. The fine nuance is escaping you.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
... but nobody here is saying Charles and the royal family were blameless, and here is where you're having this discussion. So who are you arguing with, exactly?

(Anonymous) 2020-12-20 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
History is full of people with working, autonomous minds and capacity for critical thought, and the 80s were not "the modern era". Speaking now in the modern era, nobody in this thread has suggested it's a good system.
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