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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-12-30 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #5108 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5108 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-12-31 07:27 am (UTC)(link)
Not OP - Yes, I agree with this. This is what I was talking about. Sometimes lately it does get kind of, uhh, I just wish I was able to do the thing most of my old classmates and work colleagues are doing now. Less about fitting in, more about having something meaningful. Unfortunately, I was very attached to my family and many people passed away too early. There weren't a lot of people to begin with, so... It does get lonely. Engaging in fandom distracts me from that, as it's a way to find people I can relate to (it's less people every year as I'm getting old, but...) and connect emotionally, have uncompromised fun with, share experiences, but also validate those fantasy feelings I am nurturing for characters and whatnot. It's not like they will suddenly come to life and bring me coffee, but it inspires me to create so at least I am out there drawing, writing, sometimes photographing or programming or whatnot, and building a nice hobbyist portfolio. Which, I find, suits me better as a "side endeavor" from the career-money-school routine than raising a child.