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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-12-30 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #5108 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5108 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-12-31 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I understand having reservations regarding having kids due to mental issues, but the claim that you can't have kids while being a working parent is absurd, and sounds more like an excuse not to have them. Maybe you just don't want kids after all?

(Anonymous) 2020-12-31 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
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Also, some parts of your comment as just plain rude. You don't know my situation and you're making absurd assumptions. Literally the first thing every parent has told me for all these years when i was going around saying I don't want kids is "who's going to be there for you when you're old?". This is the primary reason why people have kids. Sure, there's no guarantee that kids will still be there for you in your old age, but there's also no guarantee that your partner won't divorce you. That's why you take time and effort to build a good relationship with them. And when you're in a heterosexual relationship, the possibility of kids, even by accidental pregnancy, is always on the table, to talking to me as if I should choose a partner instead of kids is just plain strange.

You don't want kids. I do. And I have the options to give a good care for them. I hope things will work out for you, I'm pretty sure they will work out for me.

(Anonymous) 2020-12-31 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
DA - Dude, they're comment wasn't talking about your situation, it was talking specifically about theirs. And their situations is not yours. So chill out.

(Anonymous) 2021-01-01 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT--I didn't mean to be rude. I do want kids. But while it's great when children can care for their parent(s) in their dotage, having children with the assumption that they'll be willing and able to is a crapshoot.

I'm glad you have the social support and income to take on raising children solo. Good luck.