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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-01-01 04:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #5110 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5110 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[The Crown]



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02.
[Outside Xbox]


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03. [SPOILERS for Wonder Woman 1984]
[WARNING for discussion of rape]



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04. [WARNING for discussion of incest]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of domestic abuse/suicide]

[MDZS/The Untamed]


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06. [WARNING for discussion of underage/incest]


















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[personal profile] icecheetah 2021-01-01 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the line is "do you treat these people as if they are close to you, when realisticly speaking they don't know you from Adam?"

Having a crush itself is fine, what makes it creepy is whether you cross personal boundaries. And you don't HAVE to have a crush to cross these boundaries. So you can admire them from a distance, maybe talk about how cute they are, but you shouldn't go up to them and expect to be able to strike up a conversation like long lost friends and you shouldn't ask them out unless you actually ARE friends.

You can interact as a FAN and someone you are a fan OF!
Edited 2021-01-01 23:58 (UTC)

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(Anonymous) 2021-01-02 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
That's fair! I think my issue is that I am not friends with this person, I don't know this person, and I will likely never meet this person. So I'm slightly fascinated with the fact that a crush can even develop in those circumstances; but there's also an inherent fakeness to it, since who knows how much his public persona is a dress up and that's all I see. I certainly don't! Because, again, I am not his friend.