[ SECRET POST #5139 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5139 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Pixar SparkShorts "Out"]


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03.
[Sanders Sides]


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04.
[Fire Force]


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05.
[Undertale and Deltarune]


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06.
[Geoff and Reilly from Headgum (YouTube and Podcasting)]


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07.
[The Titan's Bride]














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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I know someone like this. I moved a lot and have lots of social media friends from various places all over, but there are a few who I thought were fairly close friends who ghosted not only me but other people they knew. There was no drama or anything and the interaction was always friendly likes or "congratulations!" when their kid graduated or whatever.

I think it's some weird kind of kon mari. Like, they aren't sentimental.

That or this person envies your life and seeing your post makes them hate their own. Could be that.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

da

I could have been that friend, except I had no friends in high school. But I do remember ghosting someone after they had a kid. And yes, it was some weird ass psychological projection on my part, mixed with self-loathing. Part of me assumed that coupled people with children don't mix with singles, because priorities are different and singles would become boring to couples/parents and vice versa (yes, I said ASSumed). That, and deep inside, I believed parents should be there for their kids and there should be no distractions. (It never occurred to me that, yes! Yes, parents/couples CAN find a balance between family and friends! I just assumed that was the end.) Not to mention, seeing these people the same age as me, having all their shit together when I was still struggling in an abusive home, so far behind everyone else, definitely made me feel inadequate.

Obviously, none of that is an excuse. But I just wanted to echo that it probably isn't you, it's is more than likely the other person if there was no drama.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks! I hope you're doing better now!