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[ SECRET POST #742 ]
⌈ Secret Post #742 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
101.
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102.
[Yuko Nakazawa]
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103.
[Ianto Jones, Torchwood]
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104.
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105.
[Jpopmusic.com forums, Morning Musume section]
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106.
[Boston Legal; Denny Crane]
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107.
[Trevor Moore, Whitest Kids U Know]
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108.
[Yes! Precure 5]
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109.
[Harry Potter/Tom Riddle]
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110.
[Billy Mayes infomercials]
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111.
[Pokémon]
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112.
[Super Mario Bros (live-action movie)]
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113.
[Sakura Card Captor/Tsubasa Reservoir Chronicle]
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114.
[DBSK - Shim Changmin]
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115.
[NaruHina and IchiHime]
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116.
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117.
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118.
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119.
[Left 4 Dead]
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120.
[Never Mind the Buzzcocks]
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121.
[Spongebob Squarepants]
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122.
[Supernatural]
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123.
[Legend of the Seeker]
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124.
[Digimon Adventure 02]
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125.
[Metal Gear Solid]
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126.
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127.
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128.
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129.
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130.
[Morena Baccarin]
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131.
[Heroes]
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132.
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133.
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134.
[Digimon Adventure 02]
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135.
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136.
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137.
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138.
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139.
[Arc the Lad: Twilight of the Spirits]
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140. http://i39.tinypic.com/2yucavo.jpg
[ only linked, just in case :| ]
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141.
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142.
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143.
[Vincent Vega - Pulp Fiction]
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144.
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145.
[Avatar]
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146.
[NCIS/Abby Sciuto]
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147.
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148.
[Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Fallout 3]
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149.
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150.
[The Zeta Project]
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151.
[Professor Layton]
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152.
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153.
[NCIS]
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154.
[House]
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155.
[Monty Python's Flying Circus, Eric Idle]
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156.
[Reservoir Dogs/The Piano]
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157.
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158.
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159.
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160.
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161.
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162.
[Supernatural, Misha Collins]
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163.
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164.
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165.
[The Curious Case of Benjamin Button]
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166.
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167.
[Gilmore Girls/Supernatural/Heroes]
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168.
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169.
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170.
[Brainiac Joe - Brainiac Science Abuse]
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171.
[John Constantine: Hellblazer]
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172.
[Doctor Who; Thandie Newton]
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173.
[Majin Tantei Nougami Neuro]
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174.
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175.
[Metal Gear Solid]
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176.
[Mike Rowe and Dave Barsky]
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177.
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178. [repeat]
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179.
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180.
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181.
[Catherine Tate, Doctor Who]
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182.
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183.
[Ghost in the Shell]
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184.
[House]
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185.
[Ice Age I & II]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #106.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: 175
Doubt is not a bad thing. Sexual orientation is so rarely easy to define. I envy the hell out of people who can just say "I'm blah blah blah" and never doubt that. However doubt helps us discover who we really are.
True asexuals exist but they are rare. Very rare. It's not my and anybody else's place to tell anybody if they are a true asexual. Even if they're not they deserve the right to be one at this moment. If you realize you aren't an asexual, the time you spent thinking you were one was not a waste. It was part of your journey.
That sounds cracktastic I know but I've been there. A few years ago I was convinced I was asexual. It explained so much. It seemed like it was the answer I had been seeking and...it wasn't. I learned later that I could participate in and enjoy sexual activities. I didn't have a non-existent libido, I just had a low one and it takes a bit to trigger it. Nowadays I identify pretty much as bisexual with autosexual tendencies. Maybe it'll change one day. I don't know. For now it's what I am. For now asexual is what you are, maybe what you'll always be, but it's okay if you're not.
The sad thing? I feel like I betrayed my friends in the asexual communities who were so supporting. I hope you don't have to feel like that. I hope it doesn't take you years to tell your story.