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⌈ Secret Post #5153 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

Not in direct response to OP's complaint, but I feel like I have to point out that the "5 stages" or Kubler-Ross model isn't considered an accurate or particularly helpful description of how people grieve.

(IRCC, the original research was actually focused specifically on how people cope with their own terminal illnesses.)

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[greghousesgf]

I've lost a lot of people I loved. I never went through "bargaining" once.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. People may experience all of the stages or none of them. Even for terminal patients, though, they weren't intended to be a linear or certain progression.

Honestly, the three most common things I've observed, in myself and others, is shock, sadness (not necessarily what I would classify as depression), and fear/anxiety (of the grievers' own mortality, of life without the person who has passed away, of dealing with everything that comes, wondering what comes now).

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[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I came into the comments feeling like I had to point out the same thing. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross has even said herself that the 5 stages described in her model are not meant to describe a concrete linear route that grief follows and that these "stages" can be cyclical. Not saying this to criticize the OP in any way. I just feel like the nuances of grief should be talked about and that "the 5 stages" can be a limiting way to describe grief.

I know for my grief experiences, two decades ago I didn't cry openly when my brother died and it took years for me to learn to acknowledge my grief. However, when I lost my parents the last couple of years I immediately cried and I could talk about it.