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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-03-06 04:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #5174 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5174 ⌋

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Re: Inspired by #9

(Anonymous) 2021-03-07 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
My grandmother was like your mom. In her defense, my grandmother was never able to get successful treatment for her bipolar disorder. Her manic phases tended to come with a huge helping of obsessive behavior and poor impulse control that would lead to things like the 13 sweaters incident you mention above. Your mom might be dealing with something similar.

However -- that is not your fault. It is not your job to fix it, and it's unfair for you to have been made to feel responsible for the behavior of the adults in your life. They were supposed to be responsible for your wellbeing, not the other way around. It is definitely not your job to fix your relationship with your parents. If you're comfortable suggesting that they talk to a psychiatrist, then that might be an option, but it's not your responsibility.