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[ SECRET POST #5190 ]

⌈ Secret Post #5190 ⌋

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I retract humiliation kink, and want to substitute it with trans fetishism. I could've swore I typed in trans fetishism, but apparently I didn't.

TBH I'm surprised as well, it's not my recollection of the text secret either. But regardless, I agree both with the broad point and that humiliation is a bad example of the thing you're talking.

OP

The original text secret I submitted was only race kink and trans fetishism, but I did make a vent post where I related my own experience with a person whose kink was bullying/humiliating fictional people, and well, surprise, I ended the friendship over them being mean to me. The first commenter did sympathize with my bad friendship, but questioned me over whether I was painting too broad of a brush over my personal experience. I took a moment to think about it, and I do agree with them that yes I was doing so. I was going to agree and retract my statement about the humiliation kink, but I wound up saying nothing in the end because the other commenters who followed were much ruder about it (WHICH DIDN'T HELP BTW, THANKS), so I called it enough for F!S for the day. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Race kink and trans fetishism are like the only firm examples I can think of where it just hurts to be the subject of, and I'm kinda scared/nauseous of anyone who otherizes people so much to that point. And maybe whatever cluster of fetishes that Cannibal Cop had. But that's about it for now.

No, OP, no one was rude to you about it. In fact, considering your entire rant boiled down to "having kinks I don't like means you're a bad person, and my proof is one person who has a kink I don't like and was mean to me", people were astoundingly gentle with you.

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the entire issue is just that they don't know how to stand up for themselves when people are being inappropriate on discord and they're trying to draw some judgment of kinks from that like... how young are you?

Your comment (if this was your comment, and I assume it was since you recognize it for the secret) was:

I think there are some kinks you can't be a normal person about.

For example, if your kinks are race kink, and having a kink for emotionally humiliating someone, I'm going to notice it bleeding into our relationship.

Cut and pasted verbatim from here:

https://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/2371431.html?thread=1063034983#cmt1063034983

It said nothing about trans fetishism.

OP

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Totally my fault then. I know I talked about a strong fandom incident that brought me to vent here and I mentioned the trans fetishism in conjunction with the race kink before, but I'm surprised I chose to bring up the humiliation kink one in the secret. Thank you for clarifying my faulty recollection.

This is the comment the secret was based upon:

https://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/2371431.html?thread=1063034983#cmt1063034983

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