[ SECRET POST #5190 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5190 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Suggesting that people can be 'normal' or 'abnormal about their sexual fixations, or in turn that there are normal and abnormal kinks is potentially problematic in itself. A kink is when you sexually fixate on a particular subject more so than than the average person does. By very virtue of having a kink, you are engaging in what is deemed abnormal behavior in relation to the rest of the general population. There's also the concern of context that comes in to play. Why does a particular person have a particular kink? As with everything, context can radically change how 'normal or 'abnormal' their actions will be perceived by their community.

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OP

I remember a long time someone was asking why people were okay with their vampire characters having an alien mindset, and why people were getting angry when they tried to write black people having a similar distinct, alien mindset as well. IDK how to say that you shouldn't actually believe that POC have minds that any different than white people minds, or that you shouldn't categorize IRL people in the same ways you could fantasy nonhuman races? Same with trans people.

[(Anonymous)]

DA - I feel like if we're going to accept that someone can have a kink for 14yo/40yo smut, and it doesn't mean they want to fuck real life 14-year-olds, then we should apply that same open-mindedness to someone who has a kink for white/PoC smut. Just because someone kinks on something in fiction, doesn't mean it has anything to do with their real world beliefs or behaviors.

I mean, you're perfectly within your right to judge someone in your own head. That's nobody's business but yours. But personally, I just don't think the fictional stuff someone kinks on is ever much of a basis for judgement.

[(Anonymous)]

+100000. I'm a lesbian and I like writing m/m (among other things). I have absolutely no interest in IRL men having sex with anybody, let alone me. But it's still on me to treat IRL men with basic decency like any other human being.