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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-03-30 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #5198 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5198 ⌋

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Re: Sexual/Relationship Advice

(Anonymous) 2021-03-31 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
If you cannot have an important, intimate discussion with the person you hope to marry, why are you marrying them? This isn't something you have to live with. Bite the bullet and talk to her. If she gets upset, then let her have a moment to collect herself and then continue talking. You can't protect her feelings by sacrificing yourself for the rest of your life. Even if you want to, it won't work because this is not a problem that goes away by itself.

Re: Sexual/Relationship Advice

(Anonymous) 2021-03-31 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
THIS. And adding in, if you are not compatible when it comes to something that is important to you, again, why are you marrying them? Compromising is all well and good and any successful relationship involves compromise, but there's a pretty big difference between compromising and "this person really isn't interested in this thing that is important to me."