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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-04-02 09:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #5201 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5201 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Medea]


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[Stooges vs Marx Brothers]


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10. [SPOILERS for Falcon and the Winter Soldier episode 1]



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11. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]



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14. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault, cannibalism fetish, etc]

























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(Anonymous) 2021-04-03 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
When a woman commit abuse against a man I'd be happy to see her face the consequences, but that's so rare an situation it doesn't really register for me. What I'm worried about now is that when a woman is simply accused of abusing a man her life is basically over, her career is over while a man can openly abuse a woman, and not only is he defended to the hilt and faces no punishment, we're starting to see cases now where the man will turn it around and accuse her of being abusive. We're in a world today when a man can abuse a woman then be defended and protected and then ruin her life by making an accusation that everyone rushes to believe.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-03 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it seems to me that the specific thing that we should be seeking out here is trying to build a world that takes abuse seriously, and to have consequences for men who are abusers. We shouldn't be trying to get rid of consequences for women who are abusive; we should be trying to have consequences for men who abuse. The problem is the part where men face no consequences, and changing that is really what the goal should be.

I also want to say that it seems very very likely that Amber Heard specifically was abusive (it seems overwhelmingly likely that Johnny Depp was also abusive; it seems like both parties were abusive and fucked up) and I don't think any good end is served by doing anything other than using our best, most mature judgment in all situations across the board without favor to anyone.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-03 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
funny that you mention anber heard again because isn't that the perfect example? both are abusive but johnny depp's career hasn't been impacted (even though the more well known narrative was that he was the abuser)

(Anonymous) 2021-04-03 03:52 pm (UTC)(link)
He got fired from both the Pirates of the Caribbean and Fantastic Beasts franchises. His career absolutely has been impacted in a huge way.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-03 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
It's been about an equal amount of time (2018) since I've seen either of them in anything major. They're probably getting kicked off all the major franchises they were attached to.