I don't trust people whose self-image is that they're selfless and giving. Not saying I hate them right off the top, or will never trust them no matter what they do. But at least until I get to know them, I don't trust them. In fact, I trust them less than people who straight up admit to being selfish.

The people in my life who see themselves as selfless and giving have generally been the people who have been the most selfish and also the most controlling of others.