[ SECRET POST #5291 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5291 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Supernatural prequel, Jared Padalecki]


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03.
[9-1-1 Lone Star]


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04.
[Game of Thrones]


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05.
[The Untamed/Labyrinth]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 05 secrets from Secret Submission Post #756.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[tabaqui]

Oh, you fuck off with your hyper-agressive blah blah.

[(Anonymous)]

Just in: Tabaqui approves of doxxing and harassment so long as they're attracted to the dude.

Knew you were a shitty person, but this is a new level.

[tabaqui]

OMFG. You are a seriously ridiculous individual.

Also, a coward.

[(Anonymous)]

You are a better person than this, tabaqui. Take a deep breath, look away from the screen for a second and ask yourself if the hill you want to die on tonight is really defending Jared Paladecki, known asshole and dick to the waitstaff?

[tabaqui]

I'm not defending him, jayzus. I replied to ONE PERSON who said that they thought his 'on set' behavior was this, and I said 'well, i read it was that, actually'. And then several (or one?) anon jump in saying that must mean I approve of doxxing and I love Jared and blah, blah, blah.

How is that 'defending'? Frankly, when all this nonsense came out, I thought he was kinda stupid for making that 'i am hurt' tweet, knowing it would get a huge, huge shitstorm started.

I *do not* follow their off-set lives *at all*, and haven't been terribly active in the fandom much at all for a several years so no, I had no clue about the doxxing stuff. It's a shitty thing to do.

And I am very tired of 'I hate Tabaqui' anon who comes in here every few months, deliberately engages with me in some way, and then tells me how much they hate me.

[(Anonymous)]

When the first anon told you that Jared doxxed a waitress and to stop sucking his dick, you could have shut the rest of the argument down immediately by saying that was a shitty thing for him to do. Yes, that anon was an asshole about it, but you made it worse by getting defensive and calling them ridiculous.

If someone says Jared Paledecki is an asshole because he doxxed a waitress and your response is to call them ridiculous, it is going to look like you're defending JP. And when other people start pointing out all of the other shitty things that JP has done to waiters and hotel works and bar employees and the rest of it and your response is to double down on the aggressively defensive behavior, it doesn't help your case.

It's not cool that you have your own hater anon. But you have been your own worst enemy tonight.

[tabaqui]

Them saying me repy/replies are basically the equivalent of 'i love jared and doxxing is great!' *is* ridiculous. I replied about a narrow set of behaviors, and hater!anon and a couple other extrapolated it wildly into a 'you are a Jared stan and also hate women and service workers' vibe.

That pisses me off.

[(Anonymous)]

What, tabaqui needs to employ their conflict management skills on fs now? It's not a customer job for them.

That anon was an ass. You think that everyone should be a saint and be patient with them?
Da

[tabaqui]

Also, sorry I didn't say this before, thank you for the kind words, i'm a little frustrated at some very deliberate misunderstanding going on here (in this secret).

[(Anonymous)]

Like AYRT is being overly hostile, but this dude still doxxed someone and put them in danger.

[tabaqui]

Yes? I didn't say he didn't. I didn't defend his doing that. That's a shitty thing to do. I *did* reply to someone who said 'i read his on-set behavior was this way', with 'well, i read it was actually that way'.

That's not a defense, that's just stating a fact. I had no clue about the doxxing thing, 'cause I don't follow their real-life 'stuff', and haven't been all that active in the fandom in a number of years.

If it's been brought up here, I either didn't see it or just forgot about it.

[(Anonymous)]

When your response to, "He doxxed someone so his fans could harass her" and your response was "fuck off," it looks defensive. JaPad is a shit person.

[tabaqui]

Did you not read the second part of their reply?

"Fuck off with the dick-sucking."

So, you know, a fuck off for a fuck off. And *then* they said "Just in: Tabaqui approves of doxxing and harassment so long as they're attracted to the dude." Which is fucking over the top, and also just utter bullshite.

Sorry if I'm not being conciliatory enough to this Anon.

[(Anonymous)]

What the fuck are people supposed to think when you don't shut it down and come across ultra defensive!?

[tabaqui]

Well, considering I was only 'defensive' to the person who told me to fuck off first, and then accused me of supporting doxxing, maybe that they shouldn't have gone quite so aggressive right out of the gate?

If they'd have left off the nasty second part of their comment, maybe they would have received a civil reply.

[(Anonymous)]

Here's how this all looked to me:

You: This secret is petty and mean.
Anon: But he doxxed someone, so fuck off with that defending
You: OMG YOU FUCK OFF

Do you not understand that this makes you look bad!? They literally just told you to stop defending his honor when he's a shit person.

[tabaqui]

Me saying the comment is petty is NOT DEFENDING SOMEONE. Why do you think it is? I think the secret, with someone being gleeful about all the wank, when apparently it spilled over into nasty comments and actual threats at JA, other friends, and probably started involving the families, PETTY.

If you really think my comment DEFENDS JP (and defends his doxxing which i didn't actually even know about) than I'm afraid you've lost me utterly. Explain, please, how my opinion of the OP's glee is a defense of something NOT EVEN BROUGHT UP in the secret.

[(Anonymous)]

Because a lot of us are thinking Jared are getting just desserts for once. He's doxxed more than one person and has regularly weaponized his fanbase. It sucks that actual decent people are getting hurt, but I, for one, and glad that Jared's bullshit is blowing up in his face for once because he virtually got away with the doxxing thanks to his rabid fans.

[tabaqui]

When I found out about this, my first thought was 'wtf, why is he being all passive-aggressive about this on SOCIAL MEDIA, where he KNOWS it's gonna blow up??' I honestly thought he did it on purpose for whatever reason (attention? PR?)

So no, not defending him, just finding the whole mess ugly and over the top and kinda gross.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh he's doing it on purpose all right. :/ It's because he knows what his fanbase will do...

[tabaqui]

That's so very creepy and gross.

[(Anonymous)]

'Do you not understand'

Red flag there. This anon is a moron, ignore everything they have to say.