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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-02-16 05:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #773 ]


⌈ Secret Post #773 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 12 pages, 300 secrets from Secret Submission Post #111.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2009-02-17 07:51 pm (UTC)(link)
The best advice I can give you is to make a point not to care about being a "social 'tard", and to just have fun. Hilariously, that's what fandom taught me that helped me feel okay about myself IRL.

I had no friends, was frustrated, and hated on myself a lot. After encountering fandom, I decided to work on not caring about being unable to get the social bullshit. Started out on line- be nice to everyone, squee, and if no one joins you? chances are you wouldn't have kept it up anyways. Did the same thing in Real Life- I was nice to every one and purposely stayed oblivious to what people around me thought of it. Within a year, I no longer had people bully me openly and I had people to talk to- but more importantly, I was happy with myself. By the end of two years, I had my own group of friends who I hung out with when before I was lucky to have one actual friend.

tl;dr- the best way to overcome the part of being blind to social stuff is to pretend that you either don't care about them or that you are oblivious to your inability to relate.

(I wish I could say this same thing to my BF, he thinks of himself ass a monster because he doesn't get it.)