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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-08-27 04:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #5348 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5348 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Dhux's Scar]



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04. [SPOILERS for The Green Knight]




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05. [SPOILERS for Song of Farca]




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06. [WARNING for incest/underage ship]

[Enola Holmes]



























Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
You're missing it in that, yeah, you could avoid anyone who COULD be. But that's everyone who hasn't been crushed on by a queer before. Incidents where someone queer was hurt physically by someone who had been previously accepting suddenly changing their mind when they were being crushed on by someone queer are a dime a dozen.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
And you are missing that there are way more steps between stranger, distant acquaintance, familiar acquaintance, casual friend, close friend, and best friend than you're assuming. You can have positive and friendly distant relationships with people, especially for example in the workplace, or be kind to strangers and neighbors or hang out with people on a casual basis, without needing to be their friend or best friend in a personal sense.

Anon did not say they hermit and avoid everyone, as you seem to missed. They said they are not and would not be friends with certain people. I would venture that most people are not friends with most of the people they interact with on a daily basis. I am not either!

If someone wants to avoid that kind of closer relationship with someone who is not confirmed cool with queer people or the idea of queer relationships, such as limiting yourself to fellow queer people and outspoken allies for example, what exactly is so wrong about that? Can you tell me what exactly is so wrong about that idea itself, especially in an area where bigotry is rampant?

SA

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 08:12 am (UTC)(link)
And yes, before "privilege" is thrown out again, I realize there are areas in which queer people and outspoken allies don't live, but we and everyone reading this have the internet now in the year of our lord 2021. Given that this is a fandom community and presumably everyone here is in fandom, if someone's choices are for example to have a circle of queer friends online then more power to them tbh. More people should go on and be their picky selves about who they consider friends in general imo.

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, Jan. Sure. Not everyone lives in areas of high queer acceptance like your stupid ass. Hope you never have to deal with this.

The thing you keep missing, so I will put in tinier words so you do understand, is that even outspoken queer allies may not, in fact, be allies when queers finally show open attraction to them! These people are a dime a dozen! You will see them as allies until you confess, and then they might fucking assault you! So unless you can verify that they won't, then you can't say for sure! So it's extremely privileged to go "just like allies and other queers" when the latter might be hard to find because you're in a bigoted area and even trying to find some would put you at risk, and the former might not be telling the truth!

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Oof, there you go assuming again. Anything more I say will be dismissed as privilege whether I have it or not, so I'll let you go. Good luck with your life, anon.

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Good luck with yours, but you just remind me of every straighty I've talked to who insists they're no privileged at all. You have multiple people in this thread telling you what's up and why, and you're so busy whining that the world is improved in all places enough that this isn't a problem as we can all afford to extremely curate our friendships because uwu sof online safe spaces uwuwuwuwuwuwuwu and bullshit like that.