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Willow on BtVS
(Anonymous) 2021-08-29 05:43 am (UTC)(link)The thing is, sexual attraction and romantic attachment are not always distinct or set, and that, combined with expectations (both from others and ourselves), can make for a lot of confusion. Sexual orientations in real-life are sometimes not that straightforward, so why should they be in fiction?
So, I think if you have a reasonable explanation for why something that seems to be canon isn't actually true, that would count as headcanon to me, especially since canon can and does contradict itself (family members that heretofore didn't exist showing up, family members disappearing, dead people who aren't or don't stay that way, it was all a dream, etc.).
OP
(Anonymous) 2021-08-29 09:49 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2021-08-29 01:59 pm (UTC)(link)Ah, I see. I was thinking mostly about the other way around.