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fandomsecrets2009-02-23 05:06 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2009-02-23 05:06 pm
[ SECRET POST #780 ]
⌈ Secret Post #780 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure]
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[ShakespeaRetold; The Taming of the Shrew]
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[Bones]
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[Are You Afraid of the Dark?]
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[Rockers]
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[Avatar]
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[Joe Biden]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 320 secrets from Secret Submission Post #112.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - doing it wrong ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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It's a lot harder, in my opinion, to deal with shaving or waxing then it is to just deal with trimmed pubic hair during oral sex. It seems like less of a sacrifice to mess with a bit of hair than it is to go through uncomfortable and time-consuming shaving or waxing. That's altering a person's body in a very sensitive place. And I would feel hurt if a partner ever told me my vagina turned him or her off. That would probably be a deal-breaker for me.
You're right that you should be honest with sexual partners, but personally, I would never ask someone to change anything about their bodies. I might confess to them I find it harder to go down on them when there's hair if I felt that way. There could be compromise with trimming or upkeep along those lines. But asking someone to remove their pubes would be too much for me.
I suspect this is just personal preference thing. Everyone has different standards when it comes to behavior in the bedroom.
It's not like asking your partner to lose weight: something that they probably want to do anyway, but find difficult.
Why would you assume they'd want to lose weight?
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If your partner expresses a wish to you to shave, and you find the idea repellent, or you give it a try and find it too painful, then your partner needs to back off and understand. It wasn't wrong to ask, but it's wrong to insist if the answer is, for whatever reason, no.
The idea is to communicate not to be selfish. Many times the idea of shaving just never occurred to the woman, and they are plenty happy to comply. Or else they might be a little squeemish, but are willing to comply because the discomfort is worth it the amount of pleasure it gives. Asking isn't the same as ordering or telling somebody to do something. It's being direct, rather than hoping someone will pick up on a hint.