[ SECRET POST #5359 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5359 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I have to say as a queer person who grew up in the bible belt? Norms are kind of awful. If someone says "this is a norm," I always NEED to question it and challenge it. I don't like norms. Norms have never worked in my favor, and all the oppressive norms I was raised with were paranoid and sex-negative and queerphobic, so I associate that with all sexual censorship, and that gives me hives.

Fandom is great, because there are really no universally-agreed-upon norms. I hope there never will be. But AO3's tagging system is honestly pretty good for helping people filter out stuff. Way better than fanfiction.net or Wattpad. And that's really all we can ask.

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*DA, not the same person you were replying to

[meadowphoenix]

I've said nothing about norms being reasonable, because their reasonableness isn't really the point here. Norms can be useful or not useful depending on your perspective, purpose, social space, and habits (and frankly there are likely P L E N T Y of norms in the spaces you like to be in, that you like. Some norms in a lot of queer spaces? "Don't out people" and "You use the name/pronouns people give you." I'm willing to bet that you're fine with those, as am I). Bible belt norms are made from shitty perspectives so no surprise that they have shitty norms, but a ton of norms are just about different perspectives and have both pros and cons like indirect v. direct ask culture or conversational v. non-conversational stranger interactions or generational v. small family structures.

because there are really no universally-agreed-upon norms
I mean, "agree-upon" as a sign of deliberateness isn't necessary for a norm to appear (norms can form from habit and tend to in fandom spaces), and otherwise this statement is false. There are plenty of norms in fandom-spaces, that's just how social spaces operate. Agree that tagging on AO3 is from my perspective really nice. It's just that that sentiment is entirely irrelevant to this conversation.