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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-09-21 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #5373 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5373 ⌋

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Vent

(Anonymous) 2021-09-22 08:09 am (UTC)(link)
Why do people fall for cheaters? Do they fantasize about wooing that person away from their SO, just because they love the flirt like crazy and get attention? I wish I could say something to warn a friend. I already told him out of context not to let himself be manipulated. All he said was he does things intentionally.

All she's doing is feeding her own fat, greedy ego. When she spits him out and throws him away, I'll just shake my head. I don't understand why people find narcissists so attractive.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2021-09-22 11:53 am (UTC)(link)
Because narcissists are manipulative and know how to make people feel like they'll be Different and not cheated on.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2021-09-22 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
da

Yup. Love bombing is real, and sooo tempting to fall for. Doesn't matter how bullshit it is (after all, the narcissist can't sustain it forever), someone out there will fall for it.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2021-09-22 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
because he's unstable and he fears commitment and knows that commitment won't be a factor in this temporary relationship. his ego might get bruised when she decides to cheat (and he knows she's going to) but it'll be largely superficial. it's similar to going on a 3-day drinking binge but with sex. you know how it's going to end but you do it anyway. (not me though, i don't drink.)

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2021-09-22 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Shit like that is extra infuriating for me- being aromantic I literally cannot comprehend it at -all-. All I can do is watch that person crash and burn and I'm completely unable to comfort them after the fact because a) I don't want to and b) I wouldn't know what to say anyway. I had to deal with that situation back in college and ended up loosing that friendship because I didn't 'have the right words' for them. My bad...?