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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-10-07 04:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #5389 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5389 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-10-07 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
God damn he's gorgeous.

I don't have anything valuable to say OP, sorry. I already know I have a thing for older men and a daddy kink (although not for me personally, just in fic); and I had a great relationship with my father. I know they're linked stereotypically, but I don't think they *have* to be.

Unless you find yourself *actually* attracted to your father, then I wouldn't worry about it too much.

OP

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Much appreciated. I’m not quite as squicked out as I was at first.

They definitely don’t have to be linked and I generally assume they aren’t*, so it was just a bit of a shock to see the parallels in myself.

*I really hate armchair psychology based on people’s kinks

(Anonymous) 2021-10-07 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
After reviewing my early teenage crushes after my dad died, I am now uncomfortable. So...thanks.

OP

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry for infecting you with my discomfort. With a little distance, I’ve mostly gotten over it, but the realization did make me intensely uncomfortable for a bit.

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
My Grandma always mentioned how handsome he was. It killed any appreciation I had for his looks.

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 09:11 am (UTC)(link)
I've always liked older men (in hindsight, 13 year old me's crush was very obvious, and in his 50s) my mother was more than happy to get my take on guys. *Bit* weird when she liked ones I deemed too young though.

Was hilarious when we were out together somewhere and the same guy turned both our heads.

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
It's really, really common for people's brains to attach "strong emotion (positive or negative)" to "turn-on", in all kinds of weird ways. This is how people end up kinking on balloons and car accidents. I don't think it says anything about you except that you missed your dad a lot.

(Anonymous) 2021-10-08 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't view him as anything other than the stepdad from Freaky Friday.