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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-11-29 04:08 pm

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[personal profile] tabaqui 2021-11-30 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
This.
The exSO and I were married for 30 years, have been divorced for 6 - still talk to him most days, share pictures and the movies we're watching, chat about our day, etc. He comes by for a visit every now and again, we get each other xmas gifts.... I've known him most of my life (met when I was 15) - I can't imagine just...never talking to him/never seeing him again. That would be weird.

(He's remarried btw, and happy in that, as i'm happy to be on my own.)
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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2021-11-30 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
And I'm happy for you! That sounds like a great relationship, even if it changed course.

I came close to marriage (technically still engaged, since the s/o never called it off, but I can kind of make assumptions by this time), and that was the longest relationship I ever had, and yeah... I'm glad she's still hanging around to comment on pictures of our cats and throw dumb in-jokes at each other. Occasionally flirt with picking up old RP again. (Wish my dumb health issues let me concentrate enough to write in a timely fashion.)

Honestly every time I post cat photos on FB at least two exes react, like clockwork. And yeah, those that are married now, often with kids, I'm glad they're having a good life because they're great.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2021-11-30 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Right? It's like...unless they were a truly awful person, it's nice that someone you know, and that knows you, is there for in-jokes, like you say, or little bits of shared past, memories only you know about.... It's basically family that you chose.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-30 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, that's really cool :). I'm glad that you're both happy, and still part of each other's lives like this.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2021-11-30 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you!
I know some relationships were too toxic to ever want to (or be able to) maintain, so I know we're lucky in that respect.