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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-01 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #5506 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5506 ⌋

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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2022-02-02 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely useful to know, thanks! I don't write or read a lot of smut but I'd gotten the impression that anal could be enjoyable for basically any combination of genders/genitals - since everyone has an anus... I hope...

(Fortunately the one ship I mostly write smut in, the guy who usually bottoms has any number of reasons to be into it other than physical sensation, so that's mostly what I've focused on. But always looking to expand. ...So to speak.)

(Anonymous) 2022-02-02 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Yes, physical sensation is a perfectly good reason to bottom in its own right. It doesn't feel good to everyone but for the people it does, it's really really good.

What's weird to me is the idea that it's "unrealistic" to write a bottom taking a lot of pleasure in it. There's nothing at all unrealistic about that. Smut tends to exaggerate it some because that's the genre, but if it didn't feel good, it wouldn't be as popular as it is!

(Anonymous) 2022-02-02 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. People wouldn't do it if it didn't feel good!
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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2022-02-02 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
That's always what I kind of assumed, and the suggestion in this secret that it only felt good when there was prostate stimulation kind of threw me. But being entirely without personal experience in that regard, it could be that like... everything I had ever read was wrong/grossly exaggerated. You never know.

So I appreciate the folks in this thread clarifying that yes, it does feel good if you're into it. I was really hoping I hadn't been getting it way, way wrong for 20 years, y'know.