[ SECRET POST #5510 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5510 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

We literally see Isabela hurt people on accident in a few seconds of letting her emotions loose but okay. It's played for laughs but the guy on the cart and Mariano are both hurt in only a few seconds. So like. It doesn't have to be sustained to cause immense harm.

[meadowphoenix]

again, you are thinking that fear should matter more than effective method, when ineffective methods are more likely to cause those very fears to happen....as the movie shows.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm thinking that Abuela going, "Hey we need to reel this in before someone gets hurt" is reasonable and not necessarily fear. Some people are just anxious, and Pepa has a temper on top of it. I never got the impression she was scared. The clear skies scene happens around her ANGER at her runaway brother she feels abandoned them--and her calming herself from being pissed that the girl who was five when he went missing just brought up an uncle she doesn't remember and wants to know about. Idk I just figured she was anxious in the case of the wedding because...... Lots of people get anxious around big events? Like the gift ceremony? If she was an anxious mess all the time I'd expect her clouding at every single scene but she doesn't. She actually shows a wide range of emotions.

[meadowphoenix]

I don't think we're really having the same conversation. What I'm most getting from you is that you believe the ends justify the means.

I'm thinking that Abuela going, "Hey we need to reel this in before someone gets hurt"
This is not a method. This is irrelevant to whether the method is effective, useful, kind, non-traumatizing, etc. "Pepa you have a cloud" is a method, and it's a bad one.
I never got the impression she was scared.
Either Abuela is scared about Pepa's capabilities or she isn't and "she might hurt someone" is even more irrelevant to bring up.

Some people are just anxious, and Pepa has a temper on top of it.
Right, Pepa has little emotional regulation. More to the point "some people just anxious" is very rare, and instead people are anxious because they have some lingering coping method in their childhood for which anxiousness is an off-shoot. Furthermore, you can literally talk to multiple psychologists who will tell you that constantly requiring your child at any age to not show any negative emotion will likely a) give the child less control over those emotions and/or b) cause anxious responses. It's a known side-effect of that type of method. I hope that helps.