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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-20 04:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #5525 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5525 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-21 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
They’re not projecting their own issues in any conceivable way, they’re noting that OP(which might be you, considering you said “on me” instead of “on OP”?) seems like they have some weird issues themselves with how they phrased Christian’s demeanor using established derisive language used against gay men. Whether they were doing so accidentally or not.

I’ll give them the benefit of the doubt and say that they might not have any actual issues in this regard, didn’t know the kind of language they used was considered demeaning in this context, and any possible homophobia was unintentional. They might even be LGBTQ+ themselves, and the whole thing is a misunderstanding. But even if that were the case, I still get where ayrt’s coming from, and agree with them overall.

But you seem to not know what “projection” even means, because you misused it in the same way people who think it’s a word to throw out when you want to pretend you have a point do. That, or you’re acting in bad faith, and are throwing buzzwords at the wall to see what sticks. Those are the only ways your comment makes any sense, considering ayrt is not projecting in any definition of the word. Next you’ll say they’re trying to gaslight and gatekeep.