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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-03-23 05:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #808 ]


⌈ Secret Post #808 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 12 pages, 188 secrets from Secret Submission Post #116.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - doing it wrong ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 - ONE comment per secret, please ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: 114

(Anonymous) 2009-03-23 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I think your use of the word 'distaste' is indicative of your heternormative views on anal sex.
Gay anal sex cannot be equated to heterosexual anal sex. If you really want to draw parallels then they should be between the typical form of het penetrative intercourse (vaginal) and gay penetrative intercourse (anal). But oh, no, God forbid someone compares the holy grail of adult sexual interaction (vaginal intercourse) with something as 'distasteful' as anal sex.

Anal sex for gays is not what it is for straight people: it isn't that extra kinky, once-a-year-on-your-birthday kinda event. It is the everyday reality for gay men. Look at it this way, how many heterosexual couples do you know that don't partake in vaginal sex?

Re: 114

[identity profile] zanzou-chan.livejournal.com 2009-03-23 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
...What? I like anal sex, to go a little tmi. I'm saying if someone does find anal sex distasteful (and there are people, men, women, straight, gay, who do), then they're going to find someone who shares their view.

WTF...

I've heard from a lot of gay men over the years that anal sex isn't the default-- which is what the secret is about. It's just another option.

Re: 114

[identity profile] vivalana.livejournal.com 2009-03-23 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Expecting that homosexual sex would be as frequently penetrative as heterosexual sex, despite it generally being more complicated and difficult (still fun for lots of people, though!) seems more heteronormative to me.
ext_81845: penelope, my art/character (consensual sex)

Re: 114

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2009-03-23 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, you truly are a fucking idiot.

Some straight men prefer anal sex. To some straight people, it isn't a "extra kinky, once-a-year-on-your-birthday" thing In fact, it seems like you know little to nothing about hetero sexual preferences, as much as you like to assume the sexual preferences of gay men.

Also, it seems like there's a lot of work that goes into having anal sex (at least, the sanitary kind). Beyond procuring the proper lube, you have to anally douche, unless you want feces all over your partner's penis (this is what my gay roommate told me, although I could've already assumed as much). So I would think that other sexual practices exist as an alternative for gay men who want to have sex on the fly, like blowjobs, or mutual masturbation or whatever.

Actually, I'm pretty fucking offended that you seem to think that "real sex" = penetration. To me, that seems pretty hetero-normative.