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fandomsecrets2009-03-23 05:10 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2009-03-23 05:10 pm
[ SECRET POST #808 ]
⌈ Secret Post #808 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 12 pages, 188 secrets from Secret Submission Post #116.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - doing it wrong ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 - ONE comment per secret, please ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Too Big!3
First of all, I see grammar fail. This irks me. Is it that hard to read over what you said to make sure you got it right?
Secondly... Where do I even start? Let's start by listing the causes as to why your friend may be opposed to skirts:
1) She hates skirts.
2) She's actually transgender. (*GASP!*)
3) She's going through a gender identity crisis.
In the case of 1, deal with it. Some women hate pants. Some men hate boxers. So what if your friend is violently opposed to skirts? Did it ever occur to you that maybe our society's rigid gender binary is the reason she's saying these things? You're not helping.
In the case of 2 or 3, you'd be a better friend if you were more supportive. As it is, I just see you as a bitch. And ignorant. I have a vagina, too, but that doesn't make me a girl. Genitalia does not make boys and girls - it makes males and females (and everything in between). Society makes boys and girls, and sometimes females are boys, and sometimes males are girls. And guess what? Just as you don't think it would be comfortable to be in a man's body, maybe your friend isn't comfortable with being in a female body. Just because you think being a chick is something ~*TOTALLY AWESOME*~ doesn't mean everyone is on board with you.
The bitch here is you, OP. Get a goddamn education. What are you, 14? Fucking hell.
lawl, /soapboxRe: Too Big!3
(Anonymous) 2009-03-24 01:32 am (UTC)(link)Re: Too Big!3
(Anonymous) 2009-03-24 04:07 am (UTC)(link)While it is entirely possible that your skirt-hating friend has fallen victim to the misogynistic idea that one must be ultra-feminine to be female (a point of view
that I want to stab in the headthat I've personally observed, both online and off, for over twenty years now), it is not your place to decide that for hir! If ze is identifying as male, then what the fuck your problem is, telling him that he's wrong? How the fuck does it put you out if he's calling himself a man, or if she's calling herself a woman? Get over yourself.