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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-27 04:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #5532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5532 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-27 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I understand what you mean, anon. I like to be taken care of too, and adulthood is taxing af for most of us, so I imagine a lot of other people feel the same way. Its not wrong to want to be happy!

But be careful what you wish for: I was a child who grew up in this type of household in the 60s/70s (I'm a fanom Olde), with working father and stay-at-home mother. My father went to work, my mother literally did EVERYTHING ELSE. She was often overworked and stressed, and because I was the oldest and also a girl, I was put to work helping her. My father couldn't turn the stove on to save his life, didn't know how to operate a washer, didn't even know how to cook the simplest of meals, because he never had to learn. He would help my mother with yard work and they painted the house together once, but that was the extent of it. They both worked, but my mother didn't get to retire.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, house work is 24/7 job, where's a regular job is 9/5. Especially with kids, especially kids with special needs or something similar. I mean there's a lot stay at home mothers, and I do not envy them.