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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-03-30 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #5563 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5563 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 17 secrets from Secret Submission Post #797.
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Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2022-04-01 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you’re saying this while being aware that this isn’t a good argument against OP, because your lack of fondness for the idea is based on a completely separate person that you hate doing and saying similar things. And that this is not only a very biased reason for being against it, but it’s close to guilt by association. Not in the traditional sense of that term, of course. But it’s still similar enough, in that you don’t like the idea of OP doing this because someone you don’t like also does it. Anything this person does is automatically bad if someone else also does it. That’s how your comment sounds, albeit probably unintentionally. And the fact that you brought up that you think this person you know is among other things “very distasteful as a human being”(which is very harsh with no context, but I’m sure there is proper context for it that wasn’t relevant to this discussion) it can also be read as you also saying OP is distasteful. Only if you’re really stretching and reading things in bad faith, granted, because that’s also clearly not what you meant. But I’ve seen people making accusations like this stretch with even less connective tissue.

Also, the fact that you say you can see why OP doesn’t find an issue with this in concept can mean that you can see where OP is coming from if you separate the secret from this person you know. So if that’s something you get, I don’t know why bringing up this distasteful human being you know that also does similar things was relevant? I get that it can probably be hard to separate and not associate certain things if an asshole you know does them, so I guess that’s what you’re trying to say?

I don’t know, I just find your comment a bit strange(which might say more about me than anything, I acknowledge), and I’m trying to wrap my head around it and understand it. In general, and also from your perspective. But I suck at explaining my thoughts and opinions well a lot of the time, so not only am I one to talk when it comes to calling someone else’s comments strange, but this comment of mine is probably hella strange itself lol!