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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-07-30 04:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #5684 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5684 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2022-07-30 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, F!S is hypocritical in this. Just reading the comments makes that obvious. I don't think you're a stalker, but I also don't think this merits another secret (wasn't there a secret about this a couple months ago? Not the six years claimed in other comments above).

But, honestly - why do you care what F!S thinks about your 'one time' stroll past a celebrity crush's house? Yes, a lot of people do that. Yes, it can be pretty fucking creepy/stalkery. You're not a creepy stalker? YAY YOU!

But wanting F!S to tell you it's okay and/or forgive and/or vindicate your actions is kinda silly.

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, a lot of people do that. A lot of people in fandom are obsessive, and we gravitate to fandom places because we're alike and have things in common - so what's with F!S assuming secrets about similar topics or the same person, months or years apart, are always by the same person? It's a strange assumption!

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Just because you're obsessive, don't assume everyone else is. Someone can be passionate about something without being obsessive. And expecting everyone to be like "this is fine, because you're obsessive" as though that's a healthy thing to be regardless of anything is... weird? Stop

da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a totally different point. OP is obsessive, that doesn't mean all OPs who are obsessive are the same person, or are liars.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
...huh?

The anon said "A lot of people in fandom are obsessive, and we gravitate to fandom places because we're alike"

And I told them to stop assuming we're all alike.

I don't know what you're talking about otherwise

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon said "so what's with F!S assuming secrets about similar topics or the same person, months or years apart, are always by the same person?", that's what I was talking about.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I said nothing about that part, so you responded to something I didn't say. I'm confused, what point is it you were making?

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I was just reiterating the point I thought the previous anon was clearly making, because I was confused by your reading of their comment, which didn't say all fans were obsessive.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-07-31 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
They were answering your question as to what it was about. Pretty clear to me, you are confused.

SA

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
To be clear I was responding to tabaquis point that people seem to want FS to give them validation, then the anon responding to that with "we're obsessive people and so we gather together" and there being a big difference between being passionate and being "obsessive"

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh okay, I get you now! I was also in the middle of reading other comments above, which colored how I read yours I guess.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2022-07-30 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
It is odd. It's like only one anon can have a certain secret, and all others are posers or something.

(Anonymous) 2022-07-31 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Oh it's def the same person, they even used the "it took me fifteen minutes on Google therefore it's okay!" argument. A lot of the wording in comments and in the OP are the same or so eerily similar they are either the same person or brain twins.

(Anonymous) 2022-07-30 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Good fucking lord, do you not think that celebs have the right to like personal boundaries or something? Just because they do a public job does not mean it's completely a-okay to look up their house and then walk by it like a stalker for funsies. This crosses several lines and if it wasn't a potentially famous person they were doing this too I wonder if your attitude would be very different towards this.