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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-08-17 03:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #5703 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5703 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-08-19 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT.

what makes smut hot to me is a sense of a character or characters being out of control of themselves in a sex or sex-related way. And noncon is a very direct way of having a character be out of control. But the aspect of noncon that involves someone making the choice to violate someone else makes it a hard nope for me.

What are your thoughts on dubcon? XD Because I mean, sex pollen and heats are so popular for a reason! It allows that feeling of "I want this so much I am out of control" without the ill intent and violation needed for noncon. And if you can assume that the characters have pre-existing UST where they kind of subconsciously know which one wants to dominated/be dominated then it's plausible the sex they end up having in an altered mental state is laced with unnegotiated D/s vibes.

And yeah, noncon has a very different vibe because the aggressor IS in control and the victim isn't enjoying it at least on some important level.

Maybe one day I'll write it. I'm not a particularly skilled writing, so probably not, but hey, you never know. :P

It's worth a try as a writing exercise at least! And maybe other people would be interested in seeing that kind of dynamic pulled off for those ships.

(Anonymous) 2022-08-19 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
What are your thoughts on dubcon? XD Because I mean, sex pollen and heats are so popular for a reason!

Haha, spot on, I love those tropes! XD

Though even there, it can definitely fall into "too rapey" for me sometimes. The distinction between feeling out of control and being out of control really makes all the difference for me. Or in the case of sex pollen, the fact that they have no choice is okay, but I get squicked if either of the characters is completely out of their head from the start. There has to be some sense of meaningful consent. A "Get out of here, get away from me, you can't be here, go," and a responding refusal to leave and insistence on helping--or something in that vein.

And if you can assume that the characters have pre-existing UST where they kind of subconsciously know which one wants to dominated/be dominated then it's plausible the sex they end up having in an altered mental state is laced with unnegotiated D/s vibes.

Hahaha, yuuup, this is my jam. I'm laughing at how much this is my jam, lol.