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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-08-19 06:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #5705 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5705 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug and Cat Noir]



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[Jeeves and Wooster]


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09. [SPOILERS for Xenoblade Chronicles 3]




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10. [SPOILERS for The Quarry]




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11. [SPOILERS for Dexter New Blood]




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12. [SPOILERS for The Orville]
[WARNING for discussion of abuse]




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13. [WARNING for discussion of age gap ships]




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14. [WARNING for discussion of abuse/domestic violence]




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15. [WARNING for discussion of rape/non-con]
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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #816 .
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2022-08-20 10:20 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, I get "wanting to be seen."

But my abuser went BALLISTIC when I just tried to walk away. I just wanted to get away to think for a moment, and they had huge theatrical meltdowns threatening to kill themself when I just needed to take a day off from their presence to put my head together. That is an abusive tactic, saying you can't take time off from the argument. Whether you're the "more powerful" person or not.

Not stanning Depp or Heard here (I think they're both awful) but saying you can't walk away from a fight is always always always fucking wrong. Everyone always has the right to leave without harming anyone.

(Anonymous) 2022-08-20 11:31 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT, agreed, that IS an abusive tactic but I do think that running away from a fight when the odds of "winning" the argument are low, to rethink things and go back more manipulative than ever, is very weak. So is getting others involved. I have seen it too much - from partners, from my parents. I am tired and hate it all.