[ SECRET POST #5725 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5725 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I think people think a bit more when face-to-face - only a very tiny bit, for some people, but there's definitely a filter that is frequently completely absent when emotions get heightened online. I can see why you think it looks fake in-person and why you prefer interactions when the filter is gone and you get people's more immediate reactions, but personally I think unfiltered RAARRGH isn't that great. It feels meaner to me, and I'm not really good with mean conflict.

[(Anonymous)]

I appreciate someone knowing the difference between anonymous and pseudonymous.

I don't know.

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I appreciate politeness even if it is more automatic than sincere. Unless you're talking about the fake nice that is a thin veneer for condescension or scorn, but I don't run into that much.

[(Anonymous)]

Huh, I don't know, I think sometimes people's hyperbolic emotional responses are what's faked.

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Both can fester fake ass people and depending on the general crowd either spaces can either be generally OK or just filled with so much tense anxiety.

I think it's be to be with people who make you feel comfortable and heard/seen.

I don't really fuck with spaces where being a hater is the norm. I get we all need to bitch and vent, but my patience wears thin when the majority of the people/conversations around me are about how awful things/people are. It's especially detestable when the haters put those things they hate down to boost themselves up. It makes me feel like a hater. A hater who hates on haters. 😂 And I don't want to always be there. Don't want "anger/frustration/irritation" to be the mood I feel most times.
Not to say I want peace circles all the time. Or that I think we all need to not say anything that may offend or upset others, but just that, if you are partaking in a conversation it doesn't always have to be a debate. It doesn't always have to be about who is right or who is wrong. It doesn't always have to be a fucking battle of wits. It doesn't always have to be nothing but fun times.

Like, too much time anywhere drains me lol I want to feel all the emotions and if I'm in a space where the vibe starts to feel off I'll peace out. No need to start ruffling feathers.