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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-09-19 05:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #5736 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5736 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2022-09-20 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
People showing concern for me makes me anxious and in turn makes me irritated with them. For example, I forgot to bring lunch to work today and was too tired to go out and buy some. Everyone kept asking me if I was SURE I was going to be ok not eating that long. Yes I'm fucking sure, I've done it before on non-work days too, but your ceaseless concern made me feel like I was doing something wrong. And just because I'm young looking doesn't mean you have to baby me about my eating habits. This turned into more of a vent than a confession.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2022-09-20 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
I hope is this helpful commiseration…

I also really hate it when people express concern for me, especially regarding my eating habits. Even when I know it comes from a place of genuine care, it grates on me.

I think the reason and the way it grates on me is different from you, but I can definitely relate to the overall frustration.