[ SECRET POST #5743 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #5743 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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02.
[What We Do In The Shadows]


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03.
[RPGs in general]


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04.
[We are Lady Parts]


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05.
[Usada Pekora]


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06.
[Rise of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles]


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07.
[Cheers]


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08.
[The Princess Bride]


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09.
[Overwatch]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 40 secrets from Secret Submission Post #822.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[scissorsevered]

I think a lot of it comes down to actual abusers manufacturing this whole scare too. Think about it: you scare teens into thinking that pedophiles are all around them, but you convince them that because you are against these "pedophiles", that they can trust you. This is why there has been so many instances of grooming and manipulation within the antiship circle.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

Knowing how many older fandom puritans have turned out to be groomers, I'm convinced this is it.

And their friends defend them because all that matters is that their fictional ships are healthy and the characters they like are unproblematic.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

+1

It's all about the appearance of being healthy and wholesome. The better you are at presenting that outwardly, the more harm you can do.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

This. It's all about having the right opinions and saying the right things, rather than actually doing the right thing. It's about appearing to be a perfect good person rather than actually putting effort into being a good person, even if you make mistakes.

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Yes, this. It's very common for real abusers to participate in a moral panic to divert attention from what they're doing, and for people to follow along blindly because they want to be seen as good people, and after all, the accusation is about the worst thing you can accuse somebody of, surely there must be some evidence for it, right? Right? (In reality even asking for evidence will put you on the sus list)

And also in some cases they don't want to deal with a difficult reality close to home, like a child is being abused by a family friend or a youth group pastor or a BNF who's actually showing minors porn all the time (under the guise of "look how evil this is") while encouraging them to open up about their trauma in private messages.

[(Anonymous)]

DA I made a secret about this a little while ago, but it hasn't been posted yet. But yeah, the constant moral panic about everything makes it very hard to address the behavior of the actual bad actors in fandom because it creates a smokescreen and diverts attention to people who aren't harming anyone with their fictional creations.