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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-10-01 08:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #5748 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5748 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-10-02 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Your first paragraph sounds reasonable. The second one sounds insensitive. Even if you don't want to watch her relive her anxiety (understandable), anyone with a normal healthy amount of compassion should be able to understand why she had it instead of going "WTF."

Kids throw away lunches their parents make for them just because they don't like them. Throwing a lunch away to escape anxiety over being bullied for "weird" food is downright reasonable. (And I say this as someone who thinks it's overboard to accuse other kids of being racist if they don't want to eat with you because they don't like the way your food smells and thinks schools should ban pungent foods of all types and cultural backgrounds. You don't have to eat with the kid whose lunch bothers you, just be nice about it.)

(Anonymous) 2022-10-02 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I mean, "I felt ashamed of my ethnic food and was bullied so I threw it away" is so, so common!