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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-10-28 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #5775 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5775 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[The Murderbot Chronicles]


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[Witchfinder General]


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[The Mermaid Princess's Guilty Meal]


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[Arknights]


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11. [SPOILERS for The Rings of Power]




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12. [SPOILERS for Person of Interest]




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13. [SPOILERS for Mary Skelter 2]




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14. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]




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15. [WARNING for discussion of rape(-revenge films? this is here just in case)]































Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #826.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2022-10-29 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
I do get obsessive, but I work very hard on being respectful of other people's time and interests. Definitely not shoehorning. Like, maybe once or twice a week, between episodes, I would ask a her opinion about characterization or plot during a silent moment at the dinner table. I get the most exasperated sighs when she would walk behind me while I was on the computer and notice I was looking at gifs from the show, or when I mentioned that I was going to be busy during a specific time for a discord re-watch - things that effect her not at all.

She was never like this for my other obsessions; she listened to me talk about The Untamed for *months*. This is the first time, though, that she has seen part of the thing I'm obsessed with. I don't know why that makes a difference, but somehow it does.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2022-10-29 09:36 am (UTC)(link)
This is the first time, though, that she has seen part of the thing I'm obsessed with.

That could be the problem, actually. It's possible that she didn't mind listening to you talk about things she wasn't into BECAUSE she wasn't into them, but when you're talking about something she's also watching and enjoying, the talking starts to take away from her own enjoyment of the thing and she doesn't want that.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2022-10-29 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Which makes no sense to me, because she's in fandom too, and you....talk about the thing you're enjoying? And as I said, it's not the only thing I'm talking about, so it seems to me she just doesn't want to be in fandom with ME.