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Advice sought.
(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 04:52 am (UTC)(link)Re: Advice sought.
(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 06:47 am (UTC)(link)Re: Advice sought.
(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 09:34 am (UTC)(link)So...something wrong was done to me and you think I would be snitching? That isn't a logical comment.
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Advice sought.
(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 02:47 pm (UTC)(link)Pros: your experience will be taken down on record somewhere, there is a possibility the person(s) who did harm to do will out themselves and their crime(s) to the police when they are called in for questioning and it can lead to them being charged for the crime
Cons: extremely high possibility nothing will happen outside of you being traumatized from having to relive what happened to you by talking to police about it extensively, if something does happen chances are it will take a LONG time to get the whole process of justice going and even then if there is a charge the chances of it going to court and/or the court ruling to go in your favor is slim AF (is the risk worth the possible long ride of getting the authorities involved?), those who you are accusing of wrongdoing will know that you know what they did and that you want them to be held accountable and IDK if that is a risk worth taking if you know that there is a chance that going to the authorities and being made public on some level
I'm really sorry what happened to you, no matter what it is. Something involving authorities can go so many ways. It depends on so many factors that one can't control or predict what will happen once the authorities get involved.
My advice is talk to someone you trust about what happened and seek for their advice. You don't have to take it, but it would likely help to have someone to talk to about what happened and talk through a possible plan of action.
Having support and a safe space will do so much good in terms of your mental and emotional health. Something as serious as a wrong done to you that you are thinking of going to the authorities is a lot of work and can bring on a lot of stress and anxieties, what matters most is that you don't feel alone in carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders.
Do what you feel is best for you. I'm sorry if this is really discouraging, but the law doesn't work to help the victim and we have to mindful of that. I am wishing all the best for you, no matter what you decide to do. <3
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)Two of the other responses are either trolls or just assholes, and I'm sorry they decided to make nuisances of themselves in your direction, OP.
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-27 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)I think the actors are real lemmings for going along with this shit and potentially hurting the contestants mental health.
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-28 12:47 am (UTC)(link)You need to talk to someone who is not a law enforcement official and not a bunch of internet strangers about this.
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-28 04:51 am (UTC)(link)There was another contestant- a male- during my turn up at bat on this "show". There have been plenty of other contestants.
It doesn't benefit anyone to have their privacy destroyed.
I don't know how long they were sitting on footage. I just know it couldn't have been filmed during COVID lockdown. People were sitting close together, there was no social distancing and no one wearing masks. These videos were shown to me in Feb. 2021, this is why I think it was done a while before or just before COVID.
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(Anonymous) 2022-11-28 05:02 am (UTC)(link)Please quit insinuating I need to see a psychiatrist. You need to shut the hell up with that crap. Troubled people can still see real things happening. You are most likely one of the trolls that still has access to my internet and is trying to stop me from spilling all the beans.
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