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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-02 09:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #5810 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5810 ⌋

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05. [SPOILERS for Black Panther: Wakanda Forever]




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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 09:28 am (UTC)(link)
"I would force you to think what I think if that were possible, but if I can't, coercing you to TALK and ACT like you believe it anywhere other people could hear you is good enough" is a disaster waiting to happen. And it creates a very personal conflict over what was previously an ideological disagreement."

This needs to be pointed out to just about everyone on every side but especially the left - which was previously my spiritual home.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, sweetie. Believing that some groups of people should either not exist or stay in their place well below yours was always a very personal conflict. I'd say that I'm sorry that it has suddenly become personal to you too, but that would be a lie.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon that the AYRT was RT.

I don't think you have a right to passive-aggressively talk down to strangers. The insults do not make your argument any stronger. They just make you seem vindictive.

And, because I can anticipate the likely reply, "tone policing is always completely invalid!" is an accepted belief in a rarefied in-group. Outside that space, it has been widely rejected. So, when you go for the throat of any person disagreeing with you, because you think your cause is so noble that anyone else around will understand and sympathize, chances are, they don't. They're seeing someone with a lack of emotional discipline. Someone they will avoid if they can, in the future, as opposed to sharing their thoughts with or asking you what you think.

And as long as the left just digs into "no, they're not! Or if they are, that's because they're idiots! Because all of this is totally right!!" We keep having a people-don't-want-to-hear-from-us problem. That we made.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-04 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
Totally different anon

I legit clapped after I read this. Thank you!

(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Ah, I'm sorry, and I empathize.