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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-08 05:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #5816 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5816 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Totally get you, anon.

My personality isn't an "it girl" one and I acknowledge that would never be me though. But sometimes I see people who are popular in fandom getting things I want (acknowledgement by staff like VAs and stuff, comission requests or fandom-related gifts for instance) and go "oh... must be nice".

But in my case it's really a matter of personality more anything. In one occasion I put myself out there and turns out that people hurt me a lot and take from my enjoyment. I have come to realize that I can't do it. But sometimes I wish I could.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
DA and Not OP

I feel this a lot. Burned by a lot of petty fandom stuff that as much as I would want to put myself out there to find friends/supporters, the work of giving and getting attention by various levels of energy and personality is exhausting.
Begins to feel like I'm performing a role more than am being a person who wants to share their thoughts/creations on a thing they like.