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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-08 05:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #5816 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5816 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
Even if nobody is actively nasty to you, being a BNF sucks. I was sort of one in a smallish fandom and suddenly people were sending me hourly updates on their mental health and asking me to write [request] happening so they could enjoy it before they killed themselves, telling me about sexual abuse they'd suffered and asking for medical advice and money...wtf people! I eventually put up a post to refer people to (I will not give you medical advice, personal advice or money, and here's a long list of various suicide helplines) and then they decided I was a raging bitch and that's when the abuse started! But by then the canon had finished and I was super done with the fandom and it all settled down.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Giant fucking YIKES there. Sorry that happened to you, I can see how that would really tarnish the whole experience.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 10:43 am (UTC)(link)
Jfc, that’s awful, I’m sorry you went through that! Too many people force their problems on strangers as if they were their free therapist, and abuse them when the person doesn’t act exactly how they want.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-09 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
People get soooo weird and parasocial with no boundaries whatsoever, it's wild. I'm sorry you had that experience; it's all too common. :(