[ SECRET POST #5835 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5835 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I'm not the one judging who is or isn't real, its the doctors who I go to for help and changed their opinion from "despite the symptoms that you share with your brother, its impossible for girls to be autistic so its your own fault for being weird - so try not being so weird."
to: "A lot more people come to the doctors asking about possibly having austism, especially women (its almost like we told a generation of girls that they weren't autistic despite exhibiting symptoms, but are not doing that well into adulthood - fucking weird HUH?) - so it must be because its a fad. Stop following the fad and stop struggling with social/anxiety issues - try harder to not be weird and maybe you'll be better."

but honestly I'm used to people being a dick to me because nothing I do will ever be enough and now I'm in my 30s its too late for help for it to matter anyways. So yeah just assume away that its me who has the issue and not the doctors working under an underfunded system and anything that isn't obviously obvious by their standards would be a waste of money if its mental health related. At this point I'm just waiting for people who rely on me as a carer to die off so I can just go too since its all pointless anyways and I can't be a human correctly.

[(Anonymous)]

If you’re in your 30s, you’ve likely got two thirds of your life left, so it’s definitely not too late for help to matter to you. There are professionals that specialize in adult diagnoses and treatment options, and thanks to Covid a lot of them are available remotely. You should consider trying again to find someone who will listen to you.

[(Anonymous)]

As a mid-30s woman pursuing an ADHD diagnosis, I definitely get where you're coming from. I've been feeling like I'm in a similar boat, in that there has been a huge surge in people (especially women) pursuing ADHD diagnoses in the past several years, to the point that many people including doctors DO view it as "trendy" and just assume that I must've seen a bunch of tiktoks and "decided" I have ADHD.

I literally don't even have tiktok. I won't go into my reasons for suspecting I have ADHD, because tl;dr, but suffice to say, I have a bunch of them and they're pretty solid reasons.

For the record, it's not too late for you to get help and for things to get better. I mean, I get where you're coming from with this as well. I'm mid-30s, I have no career qualifications, no friends who live within visiting distance, and there's no way that having a kid is going to be a viable option for me within the next five years. And it's hard not to grieve the fact that in all likelihood, I wouldn't be in this position if I'd been getting the mental health support I needed all these years.

But that doesn't mean things can't get better in real, substantial ways. I'll probably never have a dream life, but I do believe I can have a better one.