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fandomsecrets2023-02-18 04:09 pm
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 12:38 am (UTC)(link)If I write a character as autistic it's because I've seen relatable autistic traits in them-- and so I write about those things. I don't give them stuff off a checklist, because that's bad writing. Established characters HAVE established traits, if they didn't already feel autistic (or potentially queer), I wouldn't want to read/write about that.
But there are so many fics where like... a character being trans means they fit some idealized version of transitioning that wouldn't be probable or even possible in the canon setting, where the author didn't bother to think about what being trans was like in the past even though we have records of what life was like and how people transitioned and how they were talked about and treated (for contemporary historical fandoms, stuff set anywhere from 20-80 years ago where there are documented lives of trans people and social groups, but the process and the language around it were NOT what they are today). Or where a character being autistic means they suddenly behave very differently from in canon, have a weighted blanket, etc...
I get not wanting to read ANY fic about those identities when you run into fics that only show ONE way of being any given thing, and it isn't something that feels true to you as a reader OR to the character.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 07:29 am (UTC)(link)Like, when I write a character from the 80s as a trans man-- as I sometimes do-- for starters, neither he nor anybody else says 'trans'. I try to strike a balance between the language of the time and words younger readers would find shocking or offensive (which is an argument I don't have the energy for when I'm trying to enjoy fanfic writing), maybe talk around naming it overtly. He doesn't have a binder, any packing he does is of the stuffed sock variety, surgery was generally for people who had the means to come out *after* having had it...
For me, the thing about being queer and autistic is, one of my lifelong hyperfixations has been queer history in general and the 1980s moreso within that. So it's why I am drawn to those stories, but also why it takes me RIGHT out of it if all the dialogue sounds like a lecture written by a modern teenager, or if there are just a couple major ahistorical details. Like... you don't have to use the word 'transsexual' (even though trans people did and DO) or write about unsafe binding methods, but the slightest bit of research would make a difference.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)Sometimes I see kids (the teen-20s predominant age in fandom nowadays?) talk "trans" from a very ahistorical perspective and it's hard for me (someone old enough to remember 80s singers but who comes across as almost transphobic now) to conceal these two things. That seems like a fun way to learn, and reading kids' comments and their perspectives too.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 07:40 am (UTC)(link)Like, replacing his canon special interests with solely very... like, childish comfort things, which, why would you not just use Scooby Doo, his canon childhood comfort thing, and then throwing in a bunch of the most visible/stereotypical sensory things, making it all about his inability to care for himself post-meltdown or in general, in a way directly counter to canon... and I get the appeal in writing someone else taking care of him for once, but it was SO infantilizing. And it definitely ignored the environment in which he was raised and how that would affect his approach to anything mental health-related, even though there's no way he was diagnosed as a kid (moved around too much, masked too much, the understanding of autism was way different), and no way he's out there getting diagnosed as an adult because that would involve A) prioritizing his mental health and B) talking to a professional about it, and C) paying out of pocket because even if he HAD insurance, it wouldn't cover an adult diagnosis... self-diagnosis post-canon I could buy, but even then, everything was so clearly like... not good, in a way I found so off-putting, and it was written in a way that felt more 'writing for diversity points' than 'lived experience'.