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(Anonymous) 2023-03-13 12:15 am (UTC)(link)no subject
It's not that I'm worried about other people being toxic so much as frankly I have no sense of direction and get lost in dungeons, and everyone else seems to know the mechanics already so they just rush through - and I don't have the time to take a step back and see attack patterns and features of the battlefield and so on, so I wind up not doing something that everyone else knows to do and dying from an avoidable insta-kill attack and feeling dumb.
It's just me being worried about letting people down. It was bad enough when it was 3 other people, now it's 23 other people. :P
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(Anonymous) 2023-03-13 03:54 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
On the other hand there was another battle where the boss was clearly charging up, and someone said "stand in it" and fortunately I managed to figure out what they meant when I realized everyone was suddenly crowded together. And had no idea why they wanted me to do that because nothing much seemed to happen. Later found out that the more people are within a certain area for that attack, the less damage it does, and that was WHY nothing seemed to happen.
....And I can honestly say I have no idea what "turn into a bird" would mean either, and I've been playing for about three months. That sounds like a very strange battle, but uh. I guess if I ever get that far I will probably remember that advice specifically because of how nonsensical it sounds. :D
But even when I do know the mechanics, sometimes it's just so crowded with everyone's flashy attacks going at once that I can't see enough to figure out what's actually happening. Ugh I hate the multiplayer aspect. I like being able to play games at my own speed - and if I mess up, I don't want it to affect anyone else.
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(Anonymous) 2023-03-13 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)A lot of people turn off this option.
I have a lot of trouble understanding the MMO hate - trying and failing a fight alone, over and over and over, is for me a much more joy killing experience than having a crowd of people to follow and get the gist of things from.
I do get feeling a lot of pressure not to mess up, and I want to encourage new players to (adjusts glasses) simply fuck up anyway. People being shitty about it are basement dwellers and anyone living above ground will be happy to offer you a helpful correction, the community is exceptionally good for this.
In my late teens and early 20s I was a hardcore world of warcraft raider dating another raider and she was adamant that by virtue of joining the raid you owed other players “optimal play” (ie, knowledge of mechanics, not only appropriate but exceptional gear, etc”). This is bullshit! People looking for that kind of progression experience should join a static group and temper their expectations in the duty finder, the point of which is to find an instance quickly to advance the story.
Anyway - I love FFXIV, and I hope that more people play it, but if interacting with people online activates you or makes you nervous I think you’re right to enjoy it from the sidelines. If you’re playing but not enjoying your experience in duty finder, I would recommend finding a free company dedicated to teaching new players (you can ask in new players chat) and or, the better recommendation, use party finder instead to find players who specifically opt into explaining and going slowly.
All best!
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I think that right there is EXACTLY one of the reasons I hate the multiplayer aspects. I personally find a lot more fulfillment from gaming by messing around and trying things until I find a solution, so having people TELL me what to do makes it much less fun. (But if they don't, I could mess it up for everyone, so it's necessary.) Like, I was one of those people who wouldn't look at an FAQ for a game until I'd tried different things and failed for a couple of days - and usually this worked well because I was so satisfied when I figured it out. So we just approach games differently and get different things out of it, and that's okay.
Also in my case there's the whole thing where I am awkward and not a people person and minimize interactions with random people I don't know when they're not necessary in real life too. It kinda sucks when something that has traditionally been "a fun escape from dealing with people, that I can do myself on my own time without interruption" suddenly becomes another situation where I feel like an awkward turtle just for, for instance, last night, farming FATEs for atmas and someone else is running around hitting all the FATEs in the area too and I have no idea if my involvement might be depriving them of something or if I'm helping them do whatever they're doing faster because they haven't said a word. :P Meanwhile if this wasn't an MMO I could just do whatever I want and not worry that I'm ruining it for someone.
[Edit: Yeah and a friend who was doing stuff with me did explain when I mentioned it you can turn off other player attack effects and that will help with making Syrcus Tower less stressful I think. The previous Crystal Tower thing I just was confused the whole entire time and my heart was pounding from anxiety over not being able to even follow the instructions my friend gave me beforehand because I couldn't see what was happening. But I am still procrastinating because I dread it so much. On the bright side, 7 of the 12 atmas I need for my Gae Bolg already since like 9pm yesterday, so procrastinating can still be productive. XD]
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(Anonymous) 2023-03-13 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
That's really the core of it. I don't want my style of gaming to negatively impact anyone else who has a different style of gaming, and when I'm forced to play with other people, I therefore can't relax and enjoy the game.