fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #881 ]

⌈ Secret Post #881 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS. Random penises and nudity, but nothing full-on pornographic.

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[Robin Hood]

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[Patrick Wolf]

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[Totally Captivated]

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[Naruto, Gintama]

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[Elizabeth and Mary Tudor]

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[Sherlock Holmes]

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[SGA]

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[Rory Gallagher]

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[Avatar, HP]

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[Edgar Wright - not a repeat]

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[Skins]

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[Megan Fox]

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[James May]

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[Simon Pegg]

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[HIMYM]

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174. [porns]
http://i40.tinypic.com/f4h4yh.jpg

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[Maria-sama Ga Miteru]

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Maybe it's just me, but if you hurt someone unintentionally for any reason...isn't the natural reaction to apologize? It's the same as if you'd stepped on their foot - "Sorry, I didn't mean to" is not only the first, most basic response, but it's easy to say and expresses what I'd hope is one's reaction to inadvertently causing someone pain: regret and an assertion that it wasn't intentionally malicious.

I agree that if a person's reaction is irrational or out of proportion with whatever offense you've given them, then you shouldn't automatically change your behavior just on that basis alone. But it's not so black and white that you have to either ignore people's feelings, or cater to them unconditionally, either. Acknowledging that you've upset someone doesn't automatically forfeit the rights of the person who did so; anyone who thinks so, on either side of the issue, is wrong. But what prevents the offender from working with the offended to figure out a way that they can both be happy? Maybe it involves putting up warnings, or cut tags, or a little compromise on both sides. But civilized people don't solve their disagreements by running rampant over the people on the other side of a debate. (Well, they do, quite often, but they're not what I consider civilized.)

It's perfectly possible to respect the feelings of others without automatically becoming a doormat. Anyone who thinks that because they've been offended their every wish must be catered to until they're back in a contented state of mind is rather disturbingly spoiled...but anyone who thinks that taking other people into consideration at all is the slippery slope to being walked all over and thus refusing to compromise an inch is being deliberately sociopathic. Neither extreme is a good one to take.

Agreed x 10,000, bb. :)

[ SECRET POST #881 ]

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from the anon who posted below