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fandomsecrets2023-05-08 05:59 pm
[ SECRET POST #5967 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5967 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 06:34 am (UTC)(link)Willow is who I identified with, I liked computers and learning, and it's unfortunate that happens in schools filled with jerks. Giles is the mentor I wished I had, and Buffy is legit one of my favorite fictional heroes of all time.
Xander was funny and had a weird sense of humor, which I liked, but I didn't like his crush on Buffy. Willow was right there! And I thought the crush was too cliche to be interesting. In fact, it was boring as fuck. Hard pass.
Like I said before, Xander is my least favorite Scooby, and I could vibe with a lot of the complaints some fans had about him... in the beginning. Then as the years passed, and fandom became more divided, the vitriol got worse and worse. Until here we are today, and I can't watch a single goddamn Buffy TikTok without people spending thirty to ninety seconds shitting on Xander over the pettiest of shit. Over and over and over...
I don't bother with r/buffy because I already know day after day someone's going to derail a post that has nothing to do with Xander to shit on Xander. And they won't stop. And the moderators don't do anything when those people attack anyone who defends Xander, because nine times out of ten the mods are anti-Xander too.
I just want it to stop, or at least fucking chill for five fucking minutes. But it won't because these people have made it their mission to let everyone know what a piece of shit misogynist, abusive, incel Xander is. Because OMG! People need to know Xander is shit! Every. Fucking. Day!
Spike will never reach that level of being shat on. No other Buffy character will. Never.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 09:03 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)One more time for those in the nosebleeds: Complaining about Spike bashing is bullshit.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 06:25 pm (UTC)(link)Nah. I would have sympathized with you, if you didn't have this overriding need to claim you had it worse than anyone, and were the most deserving of attention, and bashed a real person who bothered to leave an entirely valid secret to do it. I don't care about what people aim at a fictional character nearly as much as I care what they're willing to say and do to a real person, here.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)Also, believing Spike is hated in Buffy fandom in any significant way is BULLSHIT.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-10 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)So. What?
Long after the show ended Spike's still one of the most popular Buffy characters.
I. fucking. love Spike.
Spike got to star in Angel and was this close to getting his own spin off after that ended because he's so popular. He's gotten three Spike comic book series. Other than Buffy herself, fanfic with him dominates fanfiction.
Spike is not hated, and it's that lie that's making flames come out the side of my face. And so, I'm going to call out the lie he is because I can. And I'll do it with a clear conscious because I'm not hurting anyone by doing it, and because. I'm. Right.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-10 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)Coming into a space where people tell each other about fictional things they care about, to yell at the secret maker, belittle, and insult them, is most certainly an attempt at hurting someone. You are parading around sheer aggression, and then claiming it's harmless. You're wrong, when you do all of this.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-10 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)I wonder why?
No, I don't. I know why: I'm right about Xanderslander, and they know it. Just like they know Spike bashing being a real thing is so fucking thin it's a fucking knock-knock joke by comparison.
All I'm doing is venting. No one has to take anything I write here seriously. You can literally get me to shut up but not replying to me.
That's it. That's all you need to do. But you won't.
I wonder why?
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-11 06:29 am (UTC)(link)Initially, I was talking to you. You forfeited that by proving yourself unworthy of intelligent conversation. From there on, I was engaging for the benefit of other fandom!secret anons.
I hope the lurkers enjoyed the scuffle! I'll see you guys later in the active post.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-11 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)Nice try trying to take the high road though.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-10 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)LOL, nicely done, there.