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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-05-31 06:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #5990 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5990 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-05-31 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Was literally just talking to a friend who found out Jackles is her brother-in-law's exception (as in, "I'm straight, but if I HAD to pick a dude..."). He's a very pretty man!!

(Anonymous) 2023-05-31 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I’m ace and sex-repulsed if the sex involves me. I’m 35 and a virgin. I’ve had many opportunities to have sex, including with good looking people who seemed nice, and I’ve never felt remotely interested, even when I wished I could feel interested.

Yet I do have the occasional character who I feel personally attracted to. In my case, the attraction is more…unformed? Like, it’s definitely attraction, but it’s more of an amorphous hnnnngg feeling, like my Id is making grabby hands at them and saying “Want! Look! Sexy! Want!” If I try to fantasize about actually getting dirty with them (or even kissing them), it feels nothing but weird and boring.

Still, even though it sounds like you do actually fantasize about fucking Jensen Ackles, I think that just falls under the umbrella of “sexuality is nuanced and complicated.”

Also, wanting to fuck a person one only knows from the other side of a screen is somewhat different from wanting to fuck someone who could actually be a real prospect for us. Maybe you’d still want to fuck JA if you actually, genuinely had the opportunity to do so, or maybe you wouldn’t.

(Anonymous) 2023-05-31 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon below you

Damn, you said what I said but better. Agreed!

(Anonymous) 2023-06-01 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I'm in my 40s and a virgin and will probably die one, but I kind of wish at some point I had had the opportunity to have sex just to check it off the Life Experiences list. Kind of like getting black out drunk once. Just kind of a general low grade interest and "seems like I should do it at least once" type of thing.

Funny you call it "an amorphous hnnnggg feeling" because for the first time in my life I had that experience with an actor and that is basically how I described it to my friend when I asked her "so is that what 'normal' people feel all the time with people?" lol (It was in the trailer for Infinity War when bearded Steve Rogers walks out of the shadows. It was a really weird micro second for a big reaction in my brain and body.)

(Anonymous) 2023-05-31 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Building on the above comment, if mostly straight/gay people have exceptions outside their gender of attraction, it seems reasonable that asexual + sex repulsed people would have exceptions as well.

Also, I bet it helps that he is a celebrity you've never met who portrays an attractive, charismatic character on TV - if he were a normal (albeit very pretty) man in your social circle and he hit on you it's very possible you might feel differently.

(Anonymous) 2023-05-31 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sex repulsed I'm truly neutral. No positive no negative feelings. Just genuinely no feelings about me having sex at all. Zero. Totally cool with that. Then I watched a clip of a certain actor running and suddenly out of nowhere my brain was "yes that that is what we want now." No other scene of said actor, no other situation, just that one scene and my body/brain was ready.

These meat sacks we call home are weird and random sometimes.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2023-06-01 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Well, if you had a sudden attraction to someone, there are a lot worse people, for sure.
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[personal profile] scissorsevered 2023-06-01 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
"Bang like a screen door in a hurricane" has now entered my lexicon. Thank you, anon.

(Anonymous) 2023-06-01 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
He’s probably objectively good looking, but I just can’t see his looks as anything special. That’s a me problem tho, obviously.

(Anonymous) 2023-06-01 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
Because he's fucking beautiful and just --- I'm exploding with feelings like I'm a teenage girl seeing him for the first time again, and so I really can't articulate why this man is so fucking attractive. I'm sorry.

(Anonymous) 2023-06-01 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
Sexuality can be freakin' weird. I have no idea why watching Steven Tyler on some random late night show hit me over the bits with a mallet back in the 90s; I'm demisexual for like 99.999% of the rest of my life.
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[personal profile] a_phoenixdragon 2023-06-07 09:53 am (UTC)(link)
Human minds are weird, sexuality can be fluid - and I can't think of one person I've met who doesn't have that 'exception to the rule' sex-wise (if not a couple of exceptions). Though I totally get the 'ewwWTFdonotwant' you are feeling, too.

That being said. Your brain has good taste. Damn that man is delish...