Sure, I can see what you're saying, but idk why you're replying it to me like I'm in here arguing against it? The first paragraph doesn't even make sense, you don't know anything about who I am IRL or what kind of relationships I have, and it sounds like you've misinterpreted my meaning.
What I meant to say was that some people do have that type of association with PIV, which you seem to agree with too. I don't have any assumptions about fic writers' motivations, people write all kinds of stuff for all kinds of reasons. I wasn't one of the people calling trans/cis slash het in this thread, thanks. The farthest I'll ever go in that direction is to say that some sex acts and kinks are associated with hetero sex in a wider social context, which I do feel it is possible to acknowledge without insulting trans sexuality. I don't personally have a problem with people discussing their feelings around this in a respectful manner, though I agree with you that there are a lot of disrespectful comments in this particular discussion. Apologies if my comment came across as disrespectful as well.
"All you need to do is ask people to tag their fic" this! Yeah, I always appreciate tags on smut fics.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
Sure, I can see what you're saying, but idk why you're replying it to me like I'm in here arguing against it? The first paragraph doesn't even make sense, you don't know anything about who I am IRL or what kind of relationships I have, and it sounds like you've misinterpreted my meaning.
What I meant to say was that some people do have that type of association with PIV, which you seem to agree with too. I don't have any assumptions about fic writers' motivations, people write all kinds of stuff for all kinds of reasons. I wasn't one of the people
calling trans/cis slash het in this thread, thanks. The farthest I'll ever go in that direction is to say that some sex acts and kinks are associated with hetero sex in a wider social context, which I do feel it is possible to acknowledge without insulting trans sexuality. I don't personally have a problem with people discussing their feelings around this in a respectful manner, though I agree with you that there are a lot of disrespectful comments in this particular discussion. Apologies if my comment came across as disrespectful as well.
"All you need to do is ask people to tag their fic" this! Yeah, I always appreciate tags on smut fics.