I remember finding the fandom after watching the show and the absolutely glee I felt when I found other people found her as annoying as I did. I think it's honestly probably a combo of a character I just didn't care for paired with fandom general misogyny (and probably peppered with a bit of my own internalized misogyny at the time). I'm tempted to rewatch the show and see how future me interprets all the characters but I worry I'll ruin whatever fond memories I do have of it.