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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-29 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #6049 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6049 ⌋

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Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2023-07-30 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my gods. I just feel so hopeless! You get told over and over and over again that NO this isn't really happening, it's never happened, no one could ever have said or done that, you're just doing this for attention, and so on and so on, and all I want to do is curl up in a ball and die.

"You're just a radfem trying to recruit people." No. No, I married a man. I don't hate men. I don't hate men! My gods, I just want to die. I can get abused over, and over, and over again and no one will listen, no one will believe me. They don't care what happens to you. They don't care what's said to you, or to other women. If you try to talk about it, then it's because you have some sort of agenda. It can't be honest.

A woman can be abused, and if she brings it up in court, they cite "parental alienation" and give her kids to her abuser. Is that okay? Why does everyone think it's okay? Why does everyone think it's some kind of agenda if it's brought up?

Why does everyone pretend that everything is fine? Yes, we've made progress, but that doesn't mean that everything is fine. Yes, other people are discriminated against and need support, but that doesn't mean that there's no longer any need to support women. Why are we okay with women being raped and abused? Why?

I am not okay. I want to die.

different anon

(Anonymous) 2023-07-30 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry anons here are being assholes and dismissing you as a "radfem troll" because they're uncomfortable with someone who has different experiences than them. anons have gotten quite toxic lately, to the point that they create paranoid conspiracy theories around a harmless fandom secret. i wish it wasn't this way and i hope you won't take their stupid comments to heart. hoping you find peace and healing.

Re: different anon

(Anonymous) 2023-07-30 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Thank you anon. I am probably not being my best with how upset I am, either, but it all feels very hopeless, especially here in a discussion that's ultimately about gender roles. I do not think people have moved as far past those roles as they imagine.